Most other teams bigs look good against us though, it is a problem.
I agree. I think that it's a huge problem. I'm not sure that Stevens views it the same way as us. He'd like to have it all in a big-man, but I don't think that rebounding tops his list.
Stevens wants a unicorn. A big man who can shot the three, rebound, run the floor, pass, and can both play and defend the pick and roll and are coachable. Who doesn't? Unibrow (not unicorn), KAT and a DeMarcus Cousins on thorazine are the only players in the league that come close to that standard.
The first two guys are ungettable. and I don't know if Stevens is up for (both ability-wise and willingness) coaching DMC.