For good or for bad education is a gate to opportunity. There are outliers, like Gates or Jobs, but most people's incomes are tied to their education level. Also most career fields require certain education to enter them, for some that is a traditional college for other it's professional certificates.
I have a BA in Political Science and I worked my way through a public university and took no debt. I regret not getting a BS and not going to grad school as I have reached a point in my career where I am competing for promotions with BS degrees in finance or accounting and MBAs. At 44 I am in process of returning to school to get more education.
My wife on the other hand has the same undergrad degree from the same school I attended but went on and got her JD. She feels hamstrung by her, relatively small, school debt from law school, but I feel she has more options than I do because of her post grad degree. It also bothers her that we both make similar incomes, but I feel I out earn my education level based on some fortunate circumstances.
I will also say be prepare to be treated as a valuable but replaceable cog in the machine regardless your choice, In my experience the more education you have the more valuable (harder to replace) you are and the easier it is to change jobs if you are dissatisfied. My wife feels, the opposite, her JD pigeon holes her and she has to be a lawyer.
So both sides of the college argument exist in our home so I understand your question. Whether a degree is worth it is based on a lot of variables like major, and expense. I wouldn't want to have $100k in school debt for an undergrad degree in French. The only advice I will offer is don't think just about the job you get coming out of school. Try to honestly evaluate where you want to be in 20 years both personally and financially and then decide what sort of education you need to get there, not what sort of education you need to get your first job.
Good luck with your choice. It's good you are asking questions about education and it's cost.