The lack of knowledge on the psychology and dynamics of domestic violence in this thread is astounding. Of course Janay forgave him and said everything was okay and stayed with him. It's what abuse victim's do. ALL THE TIME! And then they get abused again, and again, and again.
The only difference between this episode of DV and the thousands of others that occur in the country every week is it was caught entirely on tape. If people think this is any different than the vast majority of DV incidences, they are sorely mistaken.
Really disappointed by some with their comments in this thread that downplay DV and try to put the victim on trial. I guess for lawyers that would be expected because putting the victim on trial is what they do since lawyers only defend innocent people, but come on people!
Really? She spit at him? She hit him? Testicular fortitude talk? I mean wow! The man is an incredibly strong professional athlete who hit a 120 person knocking them clear off their feet. He got off easy from law enforcement, as most stars and DV abusers do.
Of course he did get off easy, so why isn't anyone going after law enforcement? Why is everyone going after the NFL? The NFL does not owe us anything, it is a business and will only respond to what is in the best interest of its business model. The best thing for the business based on what was out there was to hit him with 2 game suspension and move on. It was working until the video changed the facts, and as usual the NFL will do what is best for it given the facts we all now know.
Law enforcement is a totally different issue, they failed in their job to bring justice to the perpetrator of this act. They had the video, they saw the video, they should have interviewed the victim though I do not think they needed it with the video evidence. Did Ray marry her to keep her off the stand using the marital privilege? Would she have damaged the State's case if compelled to testify? A strong prosecutor goes after him and her for obstruction of justice if she lied. However, we all know how celebrity justice is different from what the average person gets.
So, my point is I don't know why NFL is getting all the heat and Law Enforcement is getting a pass. NFL even got a letter from Democrats on the Judiciary committee of the House of Reps. Why hasn't the prosecutor's office charged with enforcing the laws come under any heat for 'letting this one go'?
As far as the psychology of DV, that should be for another thread.