People are making this way too complicated. Free agency is simple. Players care about:
(1) Money
(2) Quality of team and the opportunity to win for duration of contract
(3) Style of play and their individual role in the team
Every once in a blue moon some x-factor will pop up and become an added factor in the decision. You can't control for it and there is no point in trying.
Deal with the factors within in your control and ignore the rest. Attempts to do otherwise will almost always end in misery.
1. LeBron, Wade, and Bosh ending up together in Miami after being on Team USA together and supposedly discussing at length making sure they were all on the same team together years ahead of time.
* Wade = MVP caliber player
* Bosh = widely regarded as the best available big man in that FA class + top 10-15 player after his strong season in Toronto.
* Miami has a world class organization headed by Pat Riley and Micky Arison. Everyone understands their pedigree when it comes to winning.
The combination of the three offered LeBron his best chance at winning a Championship.
2. A'Mare and Melo, two very close friends, making sure they ended up in New York together with Melo going so far as to say he would sign with no one else but New York while under contract with Denver. This was apparently talked about in depth at a wedding both attended in NYC while both were playing elsewhere.
They made sure they ended up in NY together? How so?
Melo saying he would only sign an extension with NY? That is his right as a free agent. He can join whatever team he wants to. More power to him.
3. KG stating vehemently that he wouldn't go to re-sign in Boston if traded there but as soon as Wally Szczerbiak was traded away and Ray Allen signed to Boston, KG changed his mind. It is pretty common knowledge that KG hates Wally and was friends with Ray Allen.
Ray Allen = 26.4ppg, 4.5rpg, 4.1apg and one of the finest SGs of his era
Wally Szczerbiak = washed up old wing suffering from career threatening injury problems.
Let's see, why would a player rather play with Ray Allen than Wally Szczerbiak? Maybe it is because Ray Allen is a vastly superior basketball talent who in combination with Paul Pierce offered an incredible opportunity to build a Championship caliber team.
Let's recap = Money, check. Championship aspirations, check. Style of play and role, check.
4. Chris Paul doing everything he can to possibly work his way to New York because he is so close with Melo. Just read everything that is written and has been written recently regarding this. The stories are found everywhere.
Why would Chris Paul want to play in New York with Carmelo Anthony and Amare Stoudemire?
Two bonafide All-Star caliber players. Amare arguably the second best scoring big man in the league behind Dirk Nowitzki. Carmelo Anthony one of the finest, some arguably the best, pure scorers in the league today.
The three of them playing together ... hmm, you know, I think they could win a few games. Maybe even compete for a title.
Why is it strange for Chris Paul to want to play in New York? They have cap space (money). They have top tier talent. They have a nucleus that could form the core to a Championship contender. And as an added bonus (at least for now) they have D'Antoni who would be fantastic for C.Paul (like he was for S.Nash, a very similar offensive player).
Let's recap = Money, check. Championship aspirations, check. Style of play and role, check.
A'mare signed with New York when they sucked and had little else guaranteed to be there for him to believe that the future was going to get any better.
Amare went to NYC because Miami made it clear to him that he wasn't their first choice. That Chris Bosh was and that they wanted to wait on decision before moving forward with Amare.
New York said they'd sign anyone who said yes. A first come, first serve deal.
Phoenix, his previous team, refused to meet his contract demands. NJ was coming off an 11 win season. Chicago was the only other serious suitor outside of New York.
Amare choose New York for two reasons:
(1) The Knicks had enough cap space to sign Amare and then add another max contract free agent at a later date. Either in 2010, 2011 or 2012. They also had talented young players on the roster like Danilo Gallinari and Wilson Chandler who in addition to Amare + new max contract player could form the foundation to a future Championship squad. The Knicks also had Donnie Walsh; a highly respected GM with genuine credibility whose pedigree as a team-builder brought a huge amount of optimism about the Knicks future.
(2) He wanted to be the main man (role - point three on my list) after playing second fiddle to S.Nash for all those years in Phoenix.
Let's recap = Money, check. Championship aspirations, check. Style of play and role, check.
Chris Paul and Dwight Howard and where they end up could once again show this to be true. I guess time will tell.
They should do so. Not because of friendship. That is irrelevant. But because they are two hugely talented players who complement one another magnificently on the basketball and as duo would form the core to a Championship team by themselves (no need for Big Three or Big Four, dynamic duo works fine here).