Hi Roy, point taken. I actually wasn't trying to be persuasive with that particular post, just having some fun with words and it certainly wasn't meant to take a shot at anyone that has disagreed with me in this post in a sarcastic way as Nick pointed out - and I understand why Nick did point it out.
As much as I like engaging in a spirited way in a debate, I'm actually not that invested in this thread. I love going back and forth arguing about an issue but I really could care less in the end if anyone agrees with me or not or thinks I'm an idiot or not. It's not that important, though it's a fun exercise.
The debating is a lot of fun, other people's opinions make you think and challenge your own opinions - that's fun and it's very healthy.
I may in fact change the way I post, not because I'm worried about breaking any rules, but more so based on some of the commentary by the other posters who disagreed with me the most vehemently - the last thing you ever want to do is unintentionally upset or hurt someone by saying something that you feel is completely benign in its intent.
This being said I still think we should trust in people's ability for analytical thought, their ability to determine for themselves the true intent of things said and then leave it up to them to directly discuss any issue they need to with whomever they feel they need to. Makes for strong, inquisitive minds and independent people.
I also think in this world, a little thick skin and a good sense of humor, rather than a focus all possible things offensive would be of great benefit to us all.