\Three publicized fights is not a big deal. I don't see how you can consider someone a thug for getting into fights.
I guess we disagree on what a thug is. Somebody who handles disputes through violence pretty much fits the definition to me.
Before you criticize Tony, look at his alternatives. Cry to his coach? Cry to the police? I'm sorry, but tattling over a card debt when you're a fully grown man just isn't an option if you don't want to be ridiculed and hated on by your teammates.
I agree that violence is USUALLY never a good option, but being stuck on an airplane with a teammate is a unique situation. You can't just walk away from the altercation, and I mean that both literally and figuratively.
I imagine that nobody is talking smack to Tony anymore (which is obviously what Tony sought to accomplish by punching Mayo), and realistically there was no other way to he was going to get Mayo (and probably others) to shut up.
And while of course you could ask Tony to be a little more thick-skinned and not let the smack talking get him riled up, there's only so much a person can take. We don't know how many other times something like this has happened, or how long this situation has been waiting to explode. Personally, I think Tony did the right thing.
Stop gambling with the guy. Let the team knows that Mayo does not pay what he owes. Cut Mayo out of the card games until he pays off.
Then again, if I ran a team, I would outlaw all gambling in the locker room, on the planes/buses/trains and in the hotels. It causes nothing but trouble.
Adults do not punch co-workers.
Apparently Tony didn't punch Mayo over the debt, he punched him because he was running his mouth. Aka making fun of him in front of other people, disrespecting him, however you want to call it.
Yeah, co-workers in offices don't punch each other in the face, but that's because you don't walk into an office and rip on somebody in front of people. And if you do, there are consequences, such as you getting fired.
On a pro basketball team, if Tony doesn't stand up for himself, nobody else will. Crying about it to management/the organization isn't going to accomplish anything. Sitting there and taking it just makes you more of a target. I really don't think I can emphasize enough how limited Tony's options were in this situation.
Plus, I generally don't believe in absolutes like "you should never hit anybody, ever". In an office that might be true, since there are MANY ways to deal with your grievances. But I haven't heard anybody suggest a better option for Tony.
I'm sure right now Tony is thinking whatever he was fined was worth it... he got Mayo to shut up, made his point, and did it without looking like a wimp (which I imagine is a pretty big deal when you're on a professional team). Hard to argue with the results.