RIP Lorenzen.
Living here in Memphis, and reading some of the comments, I feel somewhat obligated now to defend it. I'm a New Englander (born and raised) and will always conceptualize myself as such, but I have had to live in a lot of places around the US. When I moved here (Memphis) in 2006, my wife and I hated it. We felt alienated and different, and it took a while to get used to living in the South. All we could see initially were the cultural differences, the crime, the racial tension, the economic divide, and so forth. After my first year of postdoctoral fellowship in Memphis (2007) I had had an 18-month-old boy and my wife was about to give birth to our second child. We were convinced that this was not the place we were going to raise our kids after I was done with the fellowship. I remember telling this to a peer who had a daughter about the same age as my son and he said something like, "Memphis grows on you. You hate it at first, but at some point in time you begin to love it and never want to leave. " I thought he was nuts. Now after having lived here four years I see he couldn't be more right. Once you get past the surface crud, Memphis has all these wonderful pearls just waiting to be discovered. There is a large community of highly educated, progressive thinking, compassionate folks here that want to make a difference in the city. Furthermore, once you get to know the city you see how very rich it is in the arts, history, culture, dining, and entertainment for both children and adults. Also, these activities are more accessible and affordable than in any other city I have lived in. Don’t get me wrong, there are a lot of places that are harsh here, and there are clearly things that need to be addressed and improved. I, for one, will never understand the politics down here; however, this city has a lot to offer, and in some ways, more than other cities I have lived. So please don’t make up your mind to quickly on Memphis.
Lorenzen was a Memphis kid who went to Memphis State and then played for the Memphis Grizzlies. He is a hero in this town, and the whole city misses him terribly. Deepest sympathies to his family and friends.