You make it sound like guys are locking their arms into others and flinging opponents to the hardwood on every play which is ridiculous and you know it.
While Ray certainly didn't act reprehensible on that play, to decry his elbow as cheap and unprofessional while ignoring the equally blameworthy actions by Varejao is ludicrous when the evidence clearly shows him clamping down on Ray's arm and pulling him down.
So now he "flung" Ray to the floor?! Haha, ok. Next it's going to be a "body slam", isn't it? You're still over-exaggerating what happened.
Again - this play was no more dangerous than Rajon Rondo and another Celtic defender trying to helplessly wrap up LeBron James running at full speed. Are you guys crying that this was a dirty play as well? I mean, gosh, LeBron really could have been hurt!
I find it hilarious that your accusing everyone of exaggerating what happened while you go overboard trying to differentiate between a throw and a toss and attirbute some new way of showing a play "wasen't intentioanl" that goes like this.
1. commit act that was unintentional
2. stand over the guy while he picks himself up for no reason while your team heads back on defense
3. be so surprised that he thinks your being a jackass with your move of standing over him and glowering that you are prepared to block the elbow he throws back at you without looking.
turst me, standing over a dude you just threw to the ground is not a sign of respect and apology on any basektball court from grade school to the pro's. Its a jackass move, and it was answered by a jackass elbow.
Move on with your life, they both got caught up being stupid in the heat of the moment. If the NBA hadent become the "no contact" league under stern we wouldn't even be thinking twice about it. its not a big deal, worse goes on in pickup games for christsake.