A lot of people also wrongly think that certain legit moves are travels, especially if a player holding the ball fakes, pivots, then lifts his pivot foot to go under a player and shoots after seemingly taking a step, but never replanting the pivot foot. Crowds wrongly go nuts about that one all the time, thinking the player took two steps.
Another important point. Anyone who says player A gets away with traveling almost every time they touch the ball is so over the top and caught up in hyperbole, that reality has been left behind.
Regarding the Ray Allen J against the bobcats, I think it is a travel. He caught the ball, planted his right foot, lifted his right foot while planting his left, and then planted his right foot again. It was like a 3 step layup. If he had planted both feet together, it would be different.
Thing is, that is NOT an example of a star getting special treatment. That is just a quick play and so borderline that officials don't really see the details clear enough.
The important point of the Wade comment is that there are a few instances of players using violations to their advantage regularly. Rip's fouling while running around on offense, KG's feet shuffling in the post, Wade's carries are all plays that the league needs to look out for. You would think they could crack down on Wade the way they are cracking down on KG since both are obvious violations, unlike the hard to see Rip fouls. The more those violations aren't called, the bolder the player gets to repeat the violation.
I really don't care about the extra steps on fast breaks. I would rather more false negatives than more false positives, because false positives stop play unnecessarily. I do not see Lebron getting special treatment. I just see him being so fast and with such long strides, you can't tell what really happened without instant replay. Lebron finishes at a speed no ones else does, and fortunately, he misses a lot of shots a foot or two from the rim due to that speed. You can't make conclusions based on distanced covered with Lebron. You have to really count steps and watch the ball. That can be tough when the the defenses regularly batter Lebron and the refs need to be alert for the contact (while also watching the other 9 players on the floor).