The Secret David Stern won't admit:
Tim Donaghy was raised by Gerry Donaghy. That much is true. He was told at an early age that he had been adopted, that his real parents had died, and that while he wasn't Gerry's biological son, he was raised as such. He led a fairly innocent childhood, and he loved the game of basketball. His father was a former NCAA referee and like all good sons, he wanted to be exactly like his dear old dad.
But his dad wouldn't let him. His father fought at every turn to steer Tim, or "Tim-tom" as he was affectionatly referred to, from officiating basketball. This led to a falling out shortly after Tim's graduation from Villinova university.
They didn't speak until his hearing earlier this July.
Here is a transcript from that conversation:
Tim: Father, Im so glad you've come. You were right. I should never have got into refereeing.
Gerry: Tim, no. It is time I told you.
Tim: What father? What must you tell me?
Gerry: I am not your real father.
Tim: Father? I knew that. What are you talking about?
Gerry: The NBA...its in your blood. You father IS involved in the NBA.
Tim: My father IS involved? You mean he's not dead?
Gerry: No, no Tim-Tom. He did die. The NBA killed him, or killed the man I knew. He took a job in the NBA and turned into a cunning, cutthroat, and above all humorless arse!
Tim: Gerry. Who is my real father?
Gerry: Your father.....is David Stern.
Tim: David Stern? Nooooooooooooooo! FATHERRRRRRRRRR! (shaking his referee's whistle violently in the air)